Where Is My Mother or Who Is My Father?

Author Donald Gianassi

Posted Sep 19, 2022

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"Where is my mother or who is my father?"

This is a question that has been on my mind since I was a child. I never knew my parents and was raised in foster care. I always wondered who they were and where they were. I never had any pictures of them or any clues as to who they might be.

As I grew older, I started to do some research on my own. I looked up public records and tried to find anything that might give me a clue as to who my parents were. I never had any luck. I always wondered if they were looking for me, too.

Then, one day, I got a call from a woman who said she was my biological mother. She told me that she had been searching for me for years and had finally found me. I was shocked. I never thought I would find her.

We talked on the phone for a while and she told me about my father. She said that he was a good man and that she had loved him very much. She told me that he had died a few years ago.

She also told me that she had another child, my half-sister. I was thrilled to finally have a family.

I have since met my mother and sister and we have become very close. I am so grateful to have finally found them. They have brought so much joy into my life.

Frequently Asked Questions

How do I Find my mother and father on Ancestry DNA?

Click on the “Mother” or “Father” tab located at the top of the Ancestry DNA website. The tabs will list all of your matches who match in that category.

What if I didn’t know who my father was as a child?

It’s normal to feel resentment when you don’t know who your father is. It might seem unfair that he wasn’t in your life, but it can also be frustrating and scary to not have a daddy figure in your life. Feeling connected to your father could help create a stronger relationship with him later on in life.

How to sort matches by mother or father on Family Tree DNA?

To sort your matches by maternal or paternal side on Family Tree DNA, first, connect the tabs for mother and father on your profile. Then click on the Sorting button next to each tab. The Sort By drop-down will list Mother and Father, respectively. Select whichever one you want to use to sort your matches.

Can I find my biological father on AncestryDNA?

Yes, it is possible to find your biological father on AncestryDNA.

How do I Find my father’s DNA matches?

1. Look at your match list and your mom’s match list and find the matches who are sharing more DNA with you than they are with your mom. Those matches should be from your dad’s side.

Donald Gianassi

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Donald Gianassi is a renowned author and journalist based in San Francisco. He has been writing articles for several years, covering a wide range of topics from politics to health to lifestyle. Known for his engaging writing style and insightful commentary, he has earned the respect of both his peers and readers alike.

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